Most woman know by now the type of man they want and the man they don’t want.  The bible says “Ask and ye shall receive” so why settle?  We want to be with someone that we know that’s compatible with our personalities and someone who has the same dreams and goals that we want to achieve in the future.  Accepting someone just cause will only hold you back and prevent you from reaching your maximum potential of the woman you want to be. Common interests, future goals, and stability in all aspects of their life and qualities that add to you and not take from you is what you deserve and want for yourself. Does he make you a better person or just bring down your self-esteem?  Is he ambitious?  Does he support you in all areas of your life? When you know what you want and know  your self worth, settling is not an option.   When you don’t know yourself and don’t have high value for yourself  others won’t value you as well.  Some men find a weak woman to anchor their emotions to and use them for their own personal gain because they are weak themselves. Know his intentions and if he doesn’t bring to the table what you expect in a man then find someone who will. Know the qualities that are most important to you and keep an open mind of the ones that you can be flexible with. He might be a god-fearing man who’s respectful and loving and has the same goals and common interests as you but may not have a degree or is over 6 feet. Know the qualities that you can work with but accept the qualities that you also can’t change but are unconditional.  Make your list and pray and ask God to bless you with this man in your life.  Believe me, ask and you shall receive.  God can be removing the man you don’t need to make room for the one he has for you.  There’s nothing wrong with knowing what you want, making a list, and speak it into existence.   God has someone special for you.

Xo ❤