They didn’t lie when they said life is a class and each day is a lesson.  Relationships and love seemed to always be the hardest and most roughest lesson out of all of them. Over the years the dating game has really allowed me to go through and deal with a lot of situations and lessons in order to make me the strong woman I am today.  I’ve loved and lost, had my heart broken, have broken  others hearts, been cheated on, and fell out of love.  At times, the road was rough and rocky and when it came to making the right choices it was hard. When you’re in love you tend to listen more to your heart and not your head, allowing you to go through trials and tribulations that could have easily been avoided, had you known better.  The best way I learned from my mistakes was to go through it and experience it for myself… and perhaps maybe even hear a little wisdom from others along the way. If you know better, you do better.  Once I knew better and experienced it for myself, I avoided making the same mistakes. It’s apart of your self growth. If my life experiences and lessons can help someone make  better choices when they feel lost or if my lessons can help someone avoid going through what I’ve gone through, then I would be grateful.  Love isn’t always easy, but it’s not meant to be hard either.  Love wasn’t meant to hurt you, embarrass you, humiliate you, weaken you, reject you, or abandon you.  Love comes from within first and I had to learn to love myself better and have faith in God.   Once you learn to love you first, you will learn to make better choices for yourself and your life. Some lessons make us stronger, wiser and smarter.  At the time when we are going through them, we may feel lost and not understand the situation.  Having faith in God truly helped me. I know now that if God can allow you to go through it, he will take you through it.  God leaves some of his toughest battles for his strongest soldiers only for us to survive and tell our stories. Weather to help others or even for us to appreciate and learn from the struggle. I know that from my lesson learned were many blessing earned.  It’s just a test and it may seem impossible at times, but you will get through it.